Thursday, January 6, 2011

Where am I going?! And Why?


I will admit that I, like many "Northerners", hardly know the South, even though my aunt and family lived in Durham, North Carolina and I had student rabbinic pulpits in Owensboro, Kentucky and New Iberia, Louisiana. For many a Northerner, Birmingham, England seems more hospitable than Birmingham, Alabama.  (Birmingham, Michigan is another matter entirely.)  The foods, the music, the understanding of a shared history all differ.  The language.  The relations between blacks and whites.  The relations with Jews.  The South can seem scary.


To be honest, I am more concerned about meeting snarling dogs than dangerous people on my bike.  Surely, dislike and distrust exist.  I heard them in the concerns expressed to me in recent days.  They too demonstrate distrust and fear.  But I do believe that people are genuinely good, and, more importantly, nice.  I expect to be offered more kindnesses (water, a meal, or a place to sleep) than cruelties.  Of course, people sometimes live up to their stereotypes, but that is the price for extending oneself into the world at anytime and in any place.  The experience, the journey, the ride is everything.  Learning new truths, touching other souls, experiencing God's presence is all we may hope for each and every day.

[Life is short.  100 years more or (usually) less.  The afterlife is just that: after life.  What it is, or if it is, are meaningless questions.   How to achieve it, if it exists, is easy.  Die.  How to achieve it, if it includes Judgment is also easy.  Act well.  If in the end a particular faith or set of beliefs is required for entry, I'd be surprised, disappointed and maybe just not interested. The experience, the journey, the ride is everything.  Learning new truths, touching other souls, experiencing God's presence is all we may hope for each and every day.]

What I am looking for in the next few months and what has been given me as a great gift is this everyday opportunity muscled up.  I can not help meeting the new everyday.

5 comments:

  1. Bob: Love the view of the after life, especially Judgement.

    As we sit in the snow in 20 degree weather with our bikes firmly attached to a trainer for the winter, those of us who are cyclists are quite jealous!

    Wishing you adventure and some very good rides.

    Greg Lewis

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  2. Dear Bob,

    What an adventure of spirit and soul. I will imagine you rolling through places I've never been and bringing the world a bit closer with each rotation of your wheels.
    B'shalom.
    Claire W. (Ann Arbor)

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  3. Godspeed, Rabbi! I will follow your journey with interest.
    Becky Hankin

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  4. Bob,
    Remember me? I am Sami's Mom.We are down here in Columbus, GA. We'd love to host your visit or see you when you nearby. Zoey can give you my phone number.
    Travel safe
    Iris

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  5. Hey Rabbi!!!
    Adam and I are so excited to hear of your travels to the Ole Jewish South! We are down here in Montgomery, AL for the year (about an hour and a half from Birmingham) and would love to meet up with you on your way through! My parents were visiting last week and met the Rabbi at the reform temple in town (Temple Beth Or - Rabbi Elliot Stevens) who was also excited to hear of your upcoming expedition and happy to meet you if you pedal through Montgomery :)
    Have fun!!!
    Lauren & Adam

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